Few days after a video of NFL player Ray Rice leaked on the Internet, where he was recorded beating his wife, his senior colleague Chris Brown, has sent out a message to him and other women beaters out there, who do so as a result of anger management issues.
I find it hard to understand why Ray Rice's wife never pressed charges against him, like Riri did with C.B. She must be a Nigerian woman "For better or worse".
Speaking with Sway about anger, domestic violence and what's he's learnt, Chris Brown said;
"I think it’s all about the choices you make. With me, I deal with a lot of anger issues from my past – not knowing how to express myself verbally and, at the same time, not knowing how to cope with my emotions and deal with them and understand what they are. Help is great. I still talk to my therapist twice a week.
It helps me...if I'm frustrated, if I'm dealing with something, to vent, to say what I'm going through so I can hear from an actual clinical person. Who tells you, 'This is how you should react,’ or 'it’s good to feel this way because feelings, emotions, and energy are supposed to come and go. It’s not supposed to stay there; you’re not supposed to keep it inside because it’ll bottle up and you’ll become a monster."
"Dealing with my anger issues, understanding myself, the life I've been through and where I'm headed and where I want to be, it's really helped me to really focus.
"For somebody going through that situation or anybody dealing with it, it's all about the choices you make and how you control your anger
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To Ray, or anybody else — because I’m not better than the next man — I can just say I’ve been down that road. I deal with situations and I’ve made my mistakes too, but it’s all about how you push forward and how you control yourself."
Counsellor Osamagbe chriss ....
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